so, bascially im screwed

[WhiteLotus]

ok now this is a good old what do i tell the girl i really like i already have a girl friend situations. here it is:



ok for a while now i have been going out with a girl, lets call her amy, almost 2 years. at the moment she is at uni and so i dont really see her alot or speak to her alot - she has no internet and im not one for calling people up.

the other girl, aka hayley, is amazing. im not sure how i met her but we spoke for a while and then she left to go on holiday, and never really spoke much since.


now however hayley came online on monday and since we have been chatting and we just have been clicking, its an entirely new world and everything is happy and amazing but then i get dragged back to reality that i already have a girlfriend.

i dont want to hurt either but feel im cheating on amy for speaking to hayley, and cheating on hayley for not telling her the truth.

so advice...

yes i am an idiot and this is a result of what happens when two worlds collide. adive from guys and girls if there are any on this forum would be appreciated.

[Woah Mama!]

Sounds like you and the woman are going separate ways. If you don't even see her much now how can you still say you are going out? I'm not real good for this type of advice man, I'd bang both of them.

[WhiteLotus]

i cant - amy is in falmouth and hayley in essex. if u dont know the uk very well falmouth is about 2 hours drive from plymouth, essex about 5-6 hours away

[Woah Mama!]

Maybe find a new girlfriend then? That is a solid distance to try and maintain a relationship with either, especially as one is at University.

[zekrahminator]

Give one to me, and then stop making threads asking for dating advice ;).

[EnglishLion]

I think we need photos to offer any kind of advice!

[panchoman]

lol @ englishlion

anyway, since they're both far away, i'd say keep em as your friend-girls instead of your girlfriends, and find one in real life that you can truely interact with. honestly which one do you pick? cyberboobs or real boobs?

OR

make it into a trio, talk to both of them about it and work it out. trios will work about 10% of the time, 90% of them fail, you just gotta know how to get both girls to agree.

[WhiteLotus]

not comfortable posting pictures but thanks guys. spoken to hayley and know she knows about the situation and was suprisingly good about it. now i need to work out how to break the other ones heart

[Woah Mama!]

Tell her you did a crazy acid trip and ended up marrying a Donkey if you don't think she will take it well :roll:


Sorry man, I am an ass :nutkick:.

[WhiteLotus]

to her a lie will be less painful than the truth

and no it shines a sense of humour on the situation

[panchoman]

not comfortable posting pictures but thanks guys. spoken to hayley and know she knows about the situation and was suprisingly good about it. now i need to work out how to break the other ones heart

if hayleys good with it, then make it a trio, just gotta get amy into, if shes not okay with the trio, then you're with hayley :)

[WhiteLotus]

but then my family all really like amy, they think we're for life. im not sure this is all because i havent seen her in so long so im getting someone else to fill the void.

oh well could be worse. i could have no one after me!

[panchoman]

well if you do it threeway you'll have both :)
i did a 3 way a long time back.. it was fun

[WhiteLotus]

3some=no. amy is a very one2one kind of gf.

[panchoman]

3some=no. amy is a very one2one kind of gf.

well then, hayley understands doesn't she? so she'll understand the situation and she'll be good about it. talk to amy and how stuff is between you guys and go from there.