My current CPU is lapped, the IHS was simply warped, quite significantly. When lapping and getting to the copper core of the IHS, I quickly saw an outline of the raised sections of the CPU, the outer edges and the center with 2 little bumps.
My previous CPU was also lapped, both using water in the process. As long as you keep the pins clean, dry, and unbent, and make sure to not get metal dust on sensitive components, it should work fine. Provided of course that you stop sanding before you actually hit the die.
please remember, silicon chips without current flowing through them are VERY heat resistant, and can withstand heat FAR in excess of the T junction thermal breakdown limit 125C. So heat killing a non powered cpu would be difficult unless using a blow torch lol
Just because each individual transistor can take a momentary burst of more than 200C doesn't mean the temp limit is 125C. The tJunction does NOT measure the temperature at the actual transistors (would be millions upon millions of measurements anyways) and is simply a representative temperature of an area of the die which a sensor can be fit.
It is possible for a CPU to operate over 125C and it is possible for one to be destroyed ad 75C, as the tJunction temp really is an estimate. 125C throughout the chip (submerging an inactive chip in 125C oil or something) would not damage it in the slightest, you are correct, but this never actually happens in a computing environment. If the 'ambient' die temperature (approximated by the tJunction readings) is 125C and you still have current traveling through the gates, it really only takes nanoseconds for a gate to be activated, heat up beyond the melting point in a very small localized area, and destroy the chip. Just as providing too much voltage and suddenly loading a gate can make a comparatively cool chip fry in the same manner, as the tJunction temp would not register the temp at the one transistor that fails, and that's all it takes.
By keeping your temps down, you reduce the risk of damaging your CPU significantly, as lower ambient temperatures lead to a lower instance temperature and a quicker recovery (making repeated gate opening not build up additional heat).